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Tuesday, December 08, 2009

"The one with counting down the days..."

For the groom, the most daunting and intimidating predicament that lies in anticipation of matrimony would be hands down the nikah proceedings. Not to be a follower of such popular suit, I am also, by definition gripped by horrifying fear of the said affair. Not that we're not familiar of such things; some prepare months in advance keeping their neurotic emotions subdued, but like a dam that holds the rising tide we're often taken away by our nervousness come that immortal moment.

I can't say that I am prepared for next week. I can't also say that I'm calm for next week. For one, I am a mixture of conundrums; anxious but nervous, scared but excited - feelings reeling a thousand times more, all encased underneath the stretches of my skin. But looking back - this feels right. This feels indefectable, immaculate. This is it. Rewind the clocks back 7 years ago, who would've thought we'd arrive to this absolute climax. We've let our love for each other blossom over the years, and with that learned as much about each other enough to dignify spending the rest of our lives together. Throughout those years, we've been through happiness and angst, blunders and accomplishments - through thick and thin we've stood by supporting each other.

For what it's worth, this is something we've always had in our minds the moment our hearts yearned for each other.

So, looking back to what we've had, and what lies ahead - she's definitely worth all this, but far far, far more.

I love this woman with all my heart, and it is with her only, that I wish to be with for the rest of my life.


P.S : Sorry for the recent hiatus, getting married is no walk in the park guys! Looking forward to next Friday though. (Crikes!)


Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum wbth,

Amin...This is yet another reward in my life...seeing my child get married. I am thankful that you have found your soul mate. I am there throughout most your courtship, seen how you treat each other, watched the ups n downs of your relationship, admire the way you both tolerate each other's shortcomings and I believe both of you are suited for one another because both of you have accepted each other "seadanya". I am also thankful that both of you will be uniting two beautiful families - The Masarudins n Ijaps - Let's all pray this unision enjoys the normal ups n downs of relationship so it will remain exciting till the end of time....congrats Jep n Efi.....mama

Wa aka Wawek aka Siti ;) said...

Lots of love & prayers from Sunny Coast... You'll do great, Jep! =)

PakTam said...

Assalamu`alaikum wm.

Congratulations! Jep & Fifah. I pray that both of you will continue to love each other and live a happy and meaningful life together. Sentiasa ikhlas dalam hubungan suami isteri & juga dalam hubungan dengan mertua & ipar - they are part of you guys now.

PakTam doakan semoga majlis di KK & KL berjalan lancar & meriah! Wish kitorang could be there but rest assured, we are still part of the occasion, nevertheless!

"Its easy to buy something for your other half to show your appreciation but its always better to do something for her/him."

p.s. Soon PakTam akan ada "cucu"...! Err.. honeymoon in London?

Sweet Thinker said...

huuu. tade kad smpi umah akoo. cisdel. ptt la akoo xgi. huhu.

weh abg ipar... akoo nk kawen ngan adik fifah yg dokte tue. boley?

mamabosanz said...

cantik la fifah n,ptt la jep syg hehehehhee....